1. A portable changing mat Get a good changing mat. Your baby will have her nappy changed more than 5000 times unless you are lucky. It is easy whip out your portable change mat and go into damage control mode. My one have pockets for wipes and nappies. It is convenient. 2. Baby Bjorn front carrier This is the best carrier. It not only saves my back, it is so convenient freeing my both hands to do things while carrying her.